5 Ways to Teach Your Kids the Art of Giving

I want!  I want!  I want!  I want!!!

Um, no.

While we all love to gift our children with incredible gifts, we can’t underestimate the gift we give them as we teach them the art of giving.  It truly is better to give than to receive.  Teaching our kids to see the needs of others, to reach out in compassion and the blessing of bringing joy to others will serve them far greater throughout their lifetimes than anything we could ever give them in a box.

1. Lead by Example

Even at an age where many kids and teens are trying to develop their own identities, and those often as far from being like mom and dad as possible, they are still ever-learning by the lives we live and the examples we set.

Before suggesting, “why don’t you try doing something for others…” be sure you set the pace by not just giving to them but by letting them see you giving to others outside your home as well.

2. Make It Joyous

Serving others need not be a miserable chore or sacrifice for the giver.  While our giving should be with the intent of bringing great benefit and happiness to those we’re serving, we can and should make it a joyous occasion for all.

Get kids together for packing parties for gifts going out to those in need, children or seniors.  Make it a tradition where the family gets together for (healthy) snacks or (healthy) cocoa for a time of games and crafts alongside gift-prepping or even just brainstorming on ways to get out and serve.

Make the time of giving fun and full of laughter where possible.  The joy will be contagious and just keep multiplying.

3. Do It Often

While the Christmas season tends to prompt us to remember the needs of those around us, our efforts should not be limited to November-December.  Giving is not just something we do to celebrate a holiday.  We live as givers and people willing to serve the needs of others because, well, that’s just what we do – even when others don’t.

Teaching kids to look for ways to bless and touch the lives of others helps them learn to SEE others, to look more deeply into the eyes and hearts of others in a world that otherwise leaves them desensitized to those around them.  We get so distracted with technology and the pursuit of stuff for self that it can be frighteningly easy to forget that this world is full of billions of people living so many differing lives around us – lives that can be impacted in HUGE ways by even the simple acts of kindness and thoughtfulness that help them see they’re not just another face or profile pic amongst the crowd.

People are incredibly valuable yet we often struggle to see the value in ourselves.  Yet, how much are we blessed by those that would come alongside us and even care to brighten our day, not just because it’s Christmas or Thanksgiving but because, to someone, we matter all year long.

4. Be Creative & Timely

Some gifts are always in-season (hot, home-cooked meals, toys for kids…).  However, there’s also something special about coming up with creative and timely gifts to meet other’s needs “in-season” in terms of annual seasons or the seasons of life others are in.

Brighten another’s spring with some flowers for their garden or their winter with a bird-feeder to bring birds right to their window.

Help someone going through a stressful time with chamomile teas or gifts for a massage.  Or, gift them with your time and effort by helping them take care of a task that would lift the weight from their shoulders.

There are many gift ideas for any number of occasions.  Get the whole family involved in brainstorming to think up the coolest, most creative ways they can bless the lives of others.  Not only will this teach them to enjoy giving all the more but will also deeply touch others as they see the thoughtfulness behind the gift.

5. Count Your Blessings

It can be easy to overlook the needs and lives of others as our blessings become such commonplace to us.  Making it a point to count our blessings exercises our gratitude and increases our enjoyment of the many extras we have.  In recognizing that those things are “extras” that many don’t have, we better see where we can bless others and are often spurred on to greater giving.

What are some of our favorite ways to give and encourage giving in your family?

A Dozen Gift Ideas for the Health Nuts in Your Life

While we may seem to be a little on the picky side, we health-minded (obsessed) folk really aren’t that hard to shop for.  Here is a quick list of ideas to get those gears turning as you look to gift those you love, not just with more stuff, but with the kind of gifts that show love, thoughtfulness and support.

1. The Big Grab Baskets

What health enthusiast wouldn’t love a basket full of goodies? Of course, we’re not talking about cookies and brownies in a jar, or those mega baskets of cheeses and smoked meats. We’re talking about a bounty of life dropped right in their laps. Here are some things we would LOVE to see in some gift baskets:

The Edible Basket:

  • Goji Berries
  • Dried Blueberries or Dried Fruits without sweeteners or preservatives
  • Medjool Dates
  • Date Rolls
  • Raw Cacao for Smoothies or Shakes
  • Probiotic Dark Chocolate
  • Nut Butters
  • Kale Chips
  • Flax Crackers
  • Organic Popcorn + Virgin Coconut Oil
  • Trail Mix (real deal, no added sugars, sulfites, hydrogenated oils or canola, or candies)
  • Salad Jar filled with portioned crunchy/mixed toppings (sunflower seeds, pumpkin seeds or chopped walnuts with raisins or chopped dried figs)

A recipe book or two would make a great addition to this basket to really round it off.

The Superfood Basket:

  • Acai
  • Goji Berries
  • Dried Blueberries
  • Raw Cacao (Nibs or Powder)
  • Hemp Hearts
  • Chia Seeds
  • Flaxseeds
  • Almonds
  • Dark Chocolate
  • Walnuts
  • Almonds

The Blender-full Basket:

  • Mini-blender
  • Long, narrow silicone spatula so we can get every last drop of that smoothie out of the container
  • Acai
  • Raw Cacao (Powder)
  • Hemp Hearts
  • Chia Seeds
  • Flaxseeds
  • Bee Pollen (unless they’re vegan)
  • Spirulina, Moringa or other Greens Powders
  • Liquid Stevia
  • Fresh fruit (if you’re packing it up soon before gifting it off)

The “Ready to Go Remedies” Basket

The “Hot Cup of Joe (or Tea)” Basket

  • A pair of nice mugs
  • Organic Coffee
  • Organic and Specialty Teas (Green, Ginger, Oolong, Jasmine, Chamomile… there are really so many to choose from)
  • Stevia or Xylitol
  • A gift card to their favorite bookstore to nab a new title

The Home & Self-Care Basket

  • Essential Oil Hydrosols (especially great for those who have little ones in the home)
  • Natural, Toxin-Free Soaps, Lotions and Lip Balms
  • Soy Candles made with Essential Oils and Natural Fragrances (don’t you dare drop Febreeze in that basket!)
  • Natural Room Fresheners (They won’t likely be so glad to get the Glade)
  • Essential oil diffuser

2.  Complete Shakes with a Mini-Blender or Cool Shaker Bottle

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Health & Fitness Freaks have the hardest time finding shakes that taste great, have a great texture and come without all the junkity-junk found in so many products these days.  JuicePlus+’s Complete Shakes are crazy delicious (French Vanilla and Dutch Chocolate with variety packs also available), super smooth (yes, even when just mixed in the shaker bottle) and are chock full of all sorts of nutritional goodness.  I really love that they can be bought in a large bag or single-serve packets that make them uber convenient too.  Did I mention that there also vegan-friendly?  Seriously, I don’t care how much I have stock piled, I would totally squeal at getting these as a gift!

3.  Essential Oils & Diffusers

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Company’s like Eden’s Garden offer spectacular gift sets of all shapes and sizes, making it easy to grab a box set that’s sure to put a smile on most any natural wellness gal’s (or guy’s) face.  Our favorite are the Biblical Set, the Be Blessed Set, the Everyday Essential Oil Set, and their Synergy Blend Set.  Of course, their “Create-Your-Own” Sets are a great way to save money nabbing a collection of your favorite 2, 6, 12, or 32 oils.

The Simple Start Set also makes a great gift as it comes with extra basic bottles, roller bottles, personal diffusers,  and coconut carrier oil in addition to 6 incredible essentials.

If you REALLY want to knock the socks off your essential oil enthusiast, you can go Uber big with the Supreme Set that gives them 10 ml each of 64 different oils or you can go UBER UBER big with their Complete Set which has them set with 128 essential oils.

Their “Ok for Kids” collection makes a great gift for the kiddos too with blends that smell so good that mother dearest just may nab them too.



4. Eco-Friendly Travel Mugs, Water Bottles & Travel Containers

Glass bottles with the beautiful silicone grips, eco-friendly mugs to sip some hot green tea out of and some travel containers for all our healthful nibbles’n’bits always come in handy and are always super appreciated!

5. A Super Schnazzy Fitness Tracker

There are so many great fitness trackers on the market today, from MyZone (which I love because it has a band to wrap around the torso, keeping it out of the way and from getting smacked around during intense training) to FitBit, Garmin and Apple’s iWatch.

woman-girl-technology-music.jpg6.  The Gift of Music

This one is really for the one that loves to just pop their earbuds in and jam out like an all-star in the gym.  Gift cards for downloads or a subscription to apps like Spotify can be a great gift or stocking-stuffer.

7. The Gift of Killer Fitness Wear

Any gym-junkie would love getting some super stylish fitness wear, especially if that gym-junkie happens to be a female of most any age.  If you don’t know sizes, opt for a gift card that gives them permission to pick their faves.

I personally love all the great fitness wear that keeps coming out with powerful scriptures and declarations on them like:

  • “They shall soar on wings like eagles.  They shall run and not grow weary, they shall walk and not grow faint.”
  • “She is clothed with strength and dignity, she can laugh at the days to come without fear of the future.” and
  • “I can do ALL things through CHRIST who strengthens me.”

Of course, there are many other really cute ones out there bring faith and fitness together in some really awesome fitness wear.  Some inspiration with their perspiration, you know what I’m sayin’?

8. Kitchen Equipment

Whether your health nut likes to cook or not, there are a ton of gadgets, gizmos and appliances out there that can make quick work of healthy, homemade meals.  These are just a few things we would love to have land in our laps.fresh-healthy-kitchen-2994-830x550

  • Smoothie jars with special smoothie lids
  • Salad jars with those cute little containers for our favorite sauces
  • Meal prep bowls
  • Food processor
  • Blender (personal or larger countertop models)
  • Juicer
  • Vegetable spiralizer
  • Choppers & cutting boards
  • Good knives
  • Ulu with a gorgeous salad serving set
  • Nice eco-friendly cookware (without the toxic coatings, please!)
  • Bamboo or other wooden serving sets

9.  1-Month to their Favorite Gym or Group Fitness Class

I know this one may seem to cross a line or break some cardinal rule.  Be sure you know how the person you’re buying it for and that he/she understands the heart in which it is being given.  This would be great accompanied with a new journal and a note of encouragement in how proud you are of this special loved one for being such an inspiration to you and others in how they bring such effort to really stepping it up in their health.  Let this be a tool to cheer them on and show them your support.

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10.  Fitness Gear

Whether we’re hitting the gym or working out at home, there’s most always something we could really use or would love to introduce.  These things can be small like resistance bands or toe-sox or bigger like a heavy bag, inexpensive as a new mat or a killer investment like that TRX band set we’ve been eyeballing for months.  Do a little digging to find out what kind of fitness activities their into and nab a piece of gear that really resonates with that inner warrior of theirs.

11.  A Tower Garden

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I guarantee you – this will be the one they talk about for YEARS to come!

I realize this one may be a big buy but it is sure to be the gift of the year for anyone passionate about healthy foods. A tower garden will give them year round abundance of fresh, vibrant foods with very little cost to maintain. It’s even loved and well-enjoyed by people who otherwise struggle with getting anything to grow. Kids LOVE them and they make it too ridiculously easy to have healthy, homegrown foods indoors and out, year-round. If you’re looking to give the gift that totally beats out all others for the year, GO FOR THE GARDEN!

12.  Gift cards to their favorite Health & Wellness Store

We love when someone gives a free pass to hit the Health Food Store and just shop for whatever wellness goodies we can get our hands on!

Whatever you end up going with, we thank you for your thoughtfulness and for using this as a time to show your support!  The gift of wellness is truly a gift that keeps on giving.  

Praying you and your family a Very Merry Christmas, filled with more joy and blessings than you can count or contain!

Your turn.  What are your favorite health & wellness gifts to give or receive?



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